I am confused my wife hit me in the head and I had to have my head stapled shut and while she cut herself and claimed I was shoving her and pushing the children. Then the police was called to the Emergency room where I was on one side and she on the other the police just listened to her side and arrested me I thought that the domestic abuse laws in Oklahoma stated that when both parties were fighting and they could not determine who was as fault then both went to jail. I have searched and can not find this law on the net if you might can direct me tothe right site. Thank You, Danny Holt

-- Anonymous, July 29, 2002