What was your first time like?

-- Anonymous, July 08, 2002

Answers

Condomless, painful, and bloody. It was "penetration with a purpose (the purpose being breaking my hymen for later)." His dick was 6 inches in circumference, I had never used a tampon. No orgasms for anybody.

-- Anonymous, July 08, 2002

Painful. Awkward. With a condom though. Much like yours, in a hotel with the guy having a mega pack of condoms when we were only there for one night. Pretty much regretted it.

Oh well :)

-- Anonymous, July 09, 2002

Mine... in my ex-boyfriend's room (he was an ex at the time too... heehee) in his cold ass basement watching Mallrats. It was funny cause I still can't think of the movie the same. Well.... we made out and my intentions weren't there to have sex, but I laid there. His idea of forplay(sp?) was rubbing his penis up against me. Good for him that I get turned on by just making out, therefore, no worries. Mine hurt.... i bled..... nuff said. I don't regret it though.... so it's all good

-- Anonymous, July 09, 2002

it was just funny. he had no idea what he was doing and halfway through making out i was pretty sure i didn't want to see him again, so i didn't bother giving him any pointers. he gave me a NOOGIE during sex, and the actual sex lasted maybe one minute before he was done and iw as like, 'it's late, you should go'. i don't remember if we ever hung out again.

-- Anonymous, July 09, 2002

A lot like yours. 18, had met him (physically) just recently, was in a hotel room, there was a condom, and pain, and blood. I hadn't used tampons prior to this experience. We are still together, however.

-- Anonymous, July 09, 2002

It sucked bad. This girl was all over me, and my dick was like, "Whoa, what the fuck?" and he just went into a state of shock. Then, after (if you can even call it that) I just laid there crying. And I never had sex again.

WHAT THE FUCK

-- Anonymous, July 09, 2002

Eh, it wasn't too bad. It definitely got better afterwards. It was on a couch at my boyfriend's house (who is still my boyfriend), and i didn't bleed (not until a few times later...i dunno why), and he didn't come, so he had to go into the bathroom afterwards to finish off and i just kinda sat there waiting for him.

It was kinda lame.

-- Anonymous, July 09, 2002

I was 18. (It was only a couple of weeks after both your deflowering and that of one of my best friends.) We'd known each other since we were eleven, and had been "involved" with him for over a year: he was going out with someone else, but it was an open relationship. He only saw me occasionally as he was away at university. Two months earlier, we'd nearly done it, but I'd chickened out at the last minute, so we both knew it was on the cards for his next visit.

He got back from university from the summer, told me there wasn't much time until he'd be going somewhere else, so I said I'd take an afternoon off work. Yeah, very spontaneous. That morning, I had diarrhoea! It was such Adrian Mole-ish luck that I'm writing a novel where that happens to the protagonist. Luckily, it had cleared up by lunch time.

I went home. He'd told me to put on sexy clothes. I didn't own any, so I put on a short skirt and a tight t-shirt, but got really cold, so I put on my old school tights and my lovely garish orange-red Carlisle Youth Concert Band sweatshirt. He arrived. Knowing my brother would get home in about two hour's time, he said we should get on with it.

Ha, he didn't need five minutes. The most in the way of foreplay was scuffling around trying to find some scissors to open the condom packet with, as neither of us could rip it open. He got undressed, insisted I remained in my clothes, smeared me liberally with KY Jelly, then forced entrance. I couldn't help but lie there (I froze up whenever I was making out with him) and yell, "Ow, ow, ow, ow, ow!" The agony continued for about 30 seconds. Then I realised it was kind of an ok sort of pain, but at that moment he came.

He suggested we did it again (he was that sort of guy), but although I wasn't in pain or bleeding, I was thinking, "All this waiting for *that*?" and told him I wasn't bothered. He played computer games for two hours, while I read; then he went home.

The second time we did it, we got walked in on, and upon realising this he was out of the house within seconds. The third time we did it, I'd spent the last three hours listening to him hit on (and eventually kiss) my friend Helen (she used to post a lot to these boards) who he'd never met before. After that, I found an excuse to dump his ass (in the form of my current boyfriend). Just as well.

-- Anonymous, July 09, 2002

on a couch. with a condom. as soon as it hurt I made him stop, but then we tried again and I got over the pain. basically I got nothing out of it though. not fun.

-- Anonymous, July 09, 2002

well, ive been scared out of having children. and it seems as though my wavering stand on remaining a virgin is slowly being reinforced. and just for the record its by choice. if i do say so myself, im quite hot;)

-- Anonymous, July 10, 2002

I was 17, working at a beach retreat as a staff counselor. She and I had met during all the meetings leading up to the retreat, and had hit it off really really well...we were patrolling the beach one night, making sure there were no kids out there doing things they shouldn't be (ah, the delicious taste of irony...), and it was kinda cold out, so we sat down close together and started talking. One thing led to another, and we ended up making out, then clothes started coming out. It was her first time as well, but she didn't seem to be in too much pain, and seemed to enjoy it as well. Needless to say, we woke up the next morning, covered head to toe in sand naked, and realized we both had to be in session in an hour...we spent the rest of the day avoiding each other, but when that night rolled around....;) We dated for a few months after that, and we're still good friends to this day.

-- Anonymous, July 11, 2002

It was the best sex I had ever had in my entire life.

I was 16... he was... much older. We went to the Comfort in out of town and fucked for hours and had multiple orgasms. I got on top. He got on top. Standing up. Sitting down. Spooning. Everywhere. It was really the best. We had the best sex of anyone I have had sex with. And I didn't even let him do a lot that he wanted because I was shy. But the guy could eat me out all night long. Even if I fell asleep. It was the best!

Fuck all of you and your blood and pain. My was pain free and blood free too.

-- Anonymous, July 13, 2002

The first time I had vaginal intercourse, since that is apparently the one true definition of sex, I was 13, my partner, 23. Also in a hotel room, as it happened. No one was in pain, no one cried, orgasms had by all. The end.

-- Anonymous, July 13, 2002