Are strip clubs really that big of a deal? Would you be pissed if your boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse went to one?

-- Anonymous, June 23, 2002

Answers

Shiiiiittt..... I've been to the Katt with Doug, Kurt and Kris (the roomate before Katie and Kurt's brother) and while its not a place I'm going to tell my co-workers I go to, but ask Doug about my birthday when I started out at Rooney's took a shot from the waitress and then threw up all over Kurt's front yard.

From my experiences at the Katt (I've been there off and on since I was 17-- damn I love fake ID's-- and now I'm 22) its a little bar with modest prices and pretty good food. It didn't help one time that my friend's mom was dancing on stage once.

I've run into several normal people there just to get a beer after work because its a friendly, joking place and hey, they've got girls that dance, and ok, crack a joke, not a come-on, and they'll just bullishit like one of the guys.

Although it would be an interesting sight to see Katie and Dougie in there if I ever made an appearance. Shit, that might be cause for an entry!

Back to studying.

Hey katie, how bout an entry about summer classes sucking major donkey balls?

-- Anonymous, June 24, 2002

No, I would be excited to go with my boyfriend.

We would have a good time. Since I am hetero but love girls, I think we'd have a blast. I mean, we would definately be the type to just go and have some drinks, and maybe go up for a little bit, but it would definately be for shits and giggles.

The thing is, my boyfriend use to play in the NFL and has connections up the wall, he tells me about these great places in Atlantic City all the time. Maybe I should bring it up.

-- Anonymous, June 24, 2002

Hell, if there's a market, I don't care if strip clubs exist. And if I trusted my SO, I probably wouldn't care much if he went. If it started affecting our relationship, then I'd care.

-- Anonymous, June 24, 2002

I'd be hella pissed if my boyfriend went to a strip club to oggle the girls. I don't know. It's not about trust per se, more that I'd just be jealous as hell, and I'm loyal to the point of insanity and I expect the same from everyone in return (I am a freak). I'm the first to admit that I'd probably be making a big deal out of nothing, but I do think I have a right to be a little hella pissed.

-- Anonymous, June 24, 2002

I can see your point, but I don't think it's about loyalty at all; I don't doubt Doug in that area for a second.

I have a longer reply, but I'm on my lunch break and I have to go back to work now...

-- Anonymous, June 24, 2002

I don't think strip clubs are that big of a deal. I would love to go to one w/my boyfriend, especially one with good food! haha! My boyfriend might go to one next week for his 21st and I don't care. As long as he has a good time and doesn't spend a shitload of money (although it is his money so he can technically do what he wants). Ah, dammit. I don't care. :)

-- Anonymous, June 24, 2002

It wouldn't bother me if my boyfriend went to one of these strip clubs and mainly because, like you said, it's about trust and I trust him completely. I would want him to take me along on occasion though.

-- Anonymous, June 24, 2002

I'd be pissed cause he didn't take me with him. I like boobies too, dammit.

-- Anonymous, June 26, 2002

Heyyo! All I've got to say is that the Katt has rockin' food. You would so think it's a dive, but it's really not. If you like Sports Bars, try El Matador -- it's right around the curve as Warwick splits into two streets. Their hamburgers are hand pressed and yummy to die for.

-- Anonymous, July 03, 2002