Lately my boyfriend and I have been using a slightly different position during sex, one that, well, utilizes the g-spot. So we'll be going at it, and it feels really good. Really damn good, I have to say. But after awhile, I start feeling like I have to pee. And then I REALLY feel like if I don't stop him, there's going to be some serious golden shower action going on. So I tell him to stop, he stops, the feeling is gone. We start again, it's back. After reading a whole bunch of stuff about the g-spot, I know that I'm not going to end up actually peeing (unless, you know, I've been drinking a lot of water beforehand) - you're just supposed to ignore it and then you end up having an orgasm and (possibly) ejaculating. But while it's going on, I can't just relax and let it go, because I'm thinking "Oh my lord, I'm going to pee on him."

So, my question. Have you had a vaginal orgasm (as opposed to a clitoral one)? Do you feel like you're seriously going to pee? How do you ignore the feeling and let yourself, you know, have the orgasm? And do you actually ejacuate? Because, well, that sounds kind of icky.

-- Anonymous, August 04, 2001

Answers

I ALWAYS go to the bathroom before sex, because I'm one of those lucky women who has vaginal orgasms (with or without G-spot stimulation), and the "golden shower" thing is not really my cup of tea.

Anyway, the "gonna pee, gonna pee" feeling is almost always there with G-spot action. BUT...if you ignore it (which took me at least 10 or 12 times to learn....sort of like stopping your gag reflex...it works, but usually only with practice), you get past it. And then, oh boy.

The orgasm itself is delicious. Totally the best kind out there (well, I have no knowledge of anal orgasms....that's an exit-only IMHO). And, ejaculation is a plus. The first time it happened, it hurt. It was weird, it was very slippery, and although I knew what had happened, I didn't really know what to think, and wasn't eager to have that experience again (like I said, it hurt). The next time, oh my gosh, it was terrific. It's like an extra burst of orgasmic pleasure. I don't ejaculate much, so I don't make a big wet spot, but it's warm, and slippery (much like the feeling of Astroglide, but not sticky), and my boy can feel it when it happens.

I guess the tip I'd give you for getting around the "gotta pee" feeling is just to concentrate on ignoring it (which may sound stupid, but I don't know how else to describe it). It's never gone away for me, but it's not a problem anymore...more like a sign of the good stuff to come....so to speak. Heh. Feel free to e-mail me, Miss Anonymous G, if you wanna know more.

-- Anonymous, August 04, 2001

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-- Anonymous, August 05, 2001

what you have to do, is just be willing to pee one time in the name of science. you won't pee, but if you do, you'll be ready for it.

also, pee after sex, not before. that's just begging for a UTI.

-- Anonymous, August 19, 2001