help! help! i dont know what to do. i read all the answers given on the last question about blow jobs and i kind of left this question there too, but i wasn't sure if anyone would see it. im really looking forward to performing oral sex on my current boyfriend, and he isn't circumsized. i was wondering, do i have to do things differently? what do i do with the foreskin? i would appreciate any tips anyone could give me. i really dont want to mess up. thank you :o)

-- Anonymous, March 28, 2001

Answers

Well, my boy isn't circumsized either...

foreskin you ask? well, when your guy's penis is really hard, there should be ALL that much left over. It gets.. ummm... like used up when his penis gets larger. Also, I'm not sure what "technique" you use while performing oral sex.. ie. you may not use your hands much except to hold the bast of the penis. I usually stroke my guy while i'm blowing him. It's what he likes. The foreskin comes in really handy when you do this because it's.. i dunno... sorta loose on the surface. You can slide your hand up and down really easily without lube. Mucho sensation there too.

When I gave head to a guy who was circumsized, I couldn't really stroke him at the same time since there wasn't a lot of loosy type skin left over. When I say loose, I don't mean REALLY loose... and gross.. just umm.. moveable. Anyways.. everyone's different and everyone has different techniques. I know a guy who doesn't pull his foreskin back when he gets hard. I don't know how on earth he gets a raging hard on without it going back, but whatever.

If all else fails, ask your guy what he likes... beforehand, or while doing the deed. I suspect that if you are performing oral sex on him, you are comfortable enough talking to him about it.

Also, I do not use a condom when I give head as I am in a serious serious relationship and we use other methods of B.C. I have no clue how things would work with a condom on. I suppose it would be similar to a boy with no foreskin... but i dunno.

Hope that helps.

-- Anonymous, March 28, 2001

Well, if you're stroking him during oral, don't pull back too fast or too hard. It can tear the foreskin at the tip, which is, well, quite painful. Otherwise...instinct, I guess. I had no idea how to give oral sex (still don't), but my boy says I'm great at it. Heh. Instinct.

-- Anonymous, March 29, 2001