Eric's (I think it was Eric...) comment of "blowjobs don't just fall out of the sky" got me thinking. How many out there actually like giving someone a blow job? Why? Or how many out there absolutely detest it?
I actually do, though I don't think I could tell you why. Just one of those things.

-- Anonymous, January 17, 2001

Answers

I love it because it sends me on the most AMAZING power trip. I love it.

-- Anonymous, January 17, 2001

I mean, you know, because that's their prized possesion and everything. That is the most important part on their body, to them at least, and we've got it in our mouths, and could, if we felt like it, do absolutely ANYTHING to it. It's for SURE a power thing.

-- Anonymous, January 17, 2001

I do, but I really suck.

;)

-- Anonymous, January 18, 2001

I love giving blow jobs. Not to just anyone though, just my boyfriend. heh

-- Anonymous, January 18, 2001

I dislike both giving and receiving oral sex. It's too intimate or something. and dood, that's where people go to the bathroom... lick toilets much? i duno.

-- Anonymous, January 18, 2001

I used to love giving blowjobs but looking back I think it wasn't necessarily the act of giving head but who I was doing it to. The first time I ever did it was as part of a birthday present, haha, a surprise kind of thing to my ex. I ended up giving him head ALL the time, even while he was sleeping once, haha, what a way to wake up! Lately I have made the attempt of giving head but my gag reflexes have been acting up. Maybe it's just my phobia of non-curcumsized penises, who knows. I guess in my case, as long as I care about the guy and he's circumsized, it's great. Blowjobs can be wonderful, a great way to bond, and a very cool way of showing affection. Plus, doesn't it feel good to know that you have made someone orgasm?

-- Anonymous, January 18, 2001

That was my bitter non-blow job recieving wit, damn it.

-dan

-- Anonymous, January 18, 2001

oh my, uncircumsized guys are the worst. i was in a relationship with one (haha crystal knows..) and sex was good only about 15-20% of the time. fortunately it was a good enough relationship to be able to function without any sex, and the dude was always feeling bad and wanting to compensate with cunninglingus, but.. it didn't work out so well because i hate that. i've never really given a blowjob.. despite reading every instructional text out there, when it comes down to it, i get all nervous and disgusted and give up after a few seconds.

-- Anonymous, January 18, 2001

Dan -
Mea culpa, mea culpa, mea maxima culpa. Everyone, it was Dan, not Eric! *L* Sorry Dan.

-- Anonymous, January 18, 2001

I used to hate doing it. I was kinda like Laura, "eww gross, they pee outta that" but then I actually did it, and it was ok. Then I did it again, and I liked it even more. So on and so on..I mean the look on his face when I'm doing it is a face that is only seen then. It's awesome. To give someone pleasure like that is great!

-- Anonymous, January 19, 2001

i like giving blowjobs. and i don't think dan deserves any.

-- Anonymous, January 19, 2001

I totally enjoy giving head to my man.. I agree, it is the ultimate power trip.

My man is uncircumsized and I don't know what the prob is with you all ;) I loooove his dick. The foreskin is so fun to play with.. tug here, tug there. Seriously, it is so entertaining. My man is totally hygene crazy too, so there's no nasty buildup under there either.. big plus. I love the sex.. it feels so much better that a circumsized penis.. just my opinion though :)

-- Anonymous, January 19, 2001

My man is totally hygene crazy too, so there's no nasty buildup under there either.. big plus.

Nasty BUILDUP? Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.

-- Anonymous, January 19, 2001

I like giving a blowjob. Mmmm....yes. It is very erotic, the senses are all working, taste, smell, sight, feeling.....ahhhhh, it's great. It isn't really a power trip for me, though....but I do quite enjoy it.

Regarding uncircumcised penises: what's wrong with them? Now, it's true that I've never been with anyone who was circumsised, but I didn't even know the difference (naive), and to me, it feels excellent. Plus, during oral sex, it is so much fun, and the foreskin really helps out. Also, my boy is very clean, so there are none of the usual uncircumsised horror story problems there.

Here's a question for y'all: Have you ever put or considered putting "fellatio" or "cunnilingus" on your resume under special skills? I just updated my resume and my boy told me I should put fellatio. Hehe....if I didn't actually want the job, I might have.

-- Anonymous, January 19, 2001

okay, here's what my issue is with uncircumsized guys: it hurt for him. and when it wasn't hurting, it wasn't pleasurable. i mean, i enjoyed it, but he didn't... i duno. it was also a while ago as far as partners go. this guy and i were both pretty inexperienced.

-- Anonymous, January 19, 2001

I'm right there with you on the uncircumcized thing Chrystal. I think it's awesome. Having never seen one, then finally seeing one and getting the difference comPLETEly fascinated me. And Laura - I'm sure it has to do with the guy. My guy has no problems whatsoever. And as for giving and receiving: I'm all about both of them. Oral rocks.

-- Anonymous, January 20, 2001

Okay, I've only seen an uncircumsized penis in pictures/drawings. But, um... ew.

-- Anonymous, January 21, 2001

So, when an uncircumsized penis is erect, it looks just like a circumsized one. I know my man blows up so big that he uses up all that extra skin.. heh. It's only when it is flacid that it has it's cute lil turtleneck that might scare you. I dunno, I totally prefer a natural penis to frankendick though.

-- Anonymous, January 21, 2001

There are tons of books, websites, articles, etc. on how much better it is for a man to be uncircumcised.....I know this because my boy is a hardcore no-cutting advocate. It's good stuff.

"Turtleneck"......lol. That's what we call it, too! I think it's cute. Anyone who thinks a natural penis is gross-looking has just been brainwashed by society and porn.

-- Anonymous, January 21, 2001

Absolutely Bree. There's nothing "ew" about it. It's beautiful. Much more natural. Much nicer IMHO. After dating a guy who's uncut, I'm totally sure that if I have kids, and they turn out to be boys, I'm not going to let the doctors touch them. After all, we're totally grossed out by female genital mutilation in the Middle East... and basically we do the same thing here. It makes no sense. Hooray for people who say no to circumcision.

-- Anonymous, January 21, 2001

What really gets up my nose is that 95% of guys are cut when they are young. I think it should be up to the indivual, not the parents.grr.

-- Anonymous, January 24, 2001

FWIW, I really enjoy performing fellatio...dunno about cunnilingus, as I've never done it, though I'd probably enjoy that as well, though I'm unusually picky about receiving it...seems like a lot of people just don't know what they're doing and I end up rather frustrated. Yay for jerking off, I say.

-- Anonymous, January 26, 2001

cunnilingus: oral stimulation of the clitoris/vulva

fellatio: oral stimulation of the penis

I always see the two mixed up. Write this down.

-- Anonymous, January 27, 2001

"dunno about cunnilingus, as I've never done it, though I'd probably enjoy that as well, though I'm unusually picky about receiving it"

that's what prompted me to clear things up--not the fact that you're a guy and you said you enjoy fellatio (katie asked me on AIM). whatever your sexual orientation, as a male you can't receive cunnilingus--unless you got a sex change, which is ... well, not "rare," but I don't know many people who have.

and this is much too long for what I'm trying to say.

-- Anonymous, January 27, 2001

people enjoy performing cunnilingus. some people don't. i think that james was referrign to doing the act, not receiving it.

-- Anonymous, January 28, 2001

i fucking love giving head, but i am filthy. giving head to guys who aren't circumsized is wayyyyy easier, too. foreskin = training wheels !

-- Anonymous, January 31, 2001

Laura,

I was just having a bad grammar moment. I should have put parentheses around "dunno about cunnilingus, as I've never done it." Heh, I'm studying human sexuality, so I certainly know the difference between fellatio and cunnilingus, but not doing too well in my English classes. ;)

-- Anonymous, February 05, 2001

Oh, and as far as sex changes go, if I had my sex changed in such a way that enabled me to receive cunnilingus, I wouldn't really be male, would I? ;) (And chances are I wouldn't go by the name James...heh...) It'd be entirely more likely, if that were the situation, that I was a female-born transsexual who still had a vulva, but I digress..

-- Anonymous, February 05, 2001

I have to say I love uncircumsised guys over cut ones. They are so much more fun the way the skin rolls back a forwards I love, it is a shame that there are not more uncut guys out there!!!!!

-- Anonymous, March 13, 2001

i was hoping one of you gals out there (roxy, kristey, angela or chrystal, perhaps?) could describe the difference between having sex with a circumsized man and an uncircumsized one (or performing felatio on one versus the other?). i have done both with my circumsized ex and am now curious about a possible encounter with an asian guy i am seeing (who i think may be uncircumsized and would like to be prepared). does it FEEL different going in? is the sex longer or briefer? any pointers on the second question? thanks.

-- Anonymous, March 22, 2001

Circumsized, or uncircumsized. They feel the same. When the penis is erect for both of them, they are the same.

No difference.

By the way. I don't enjoy blowjob for the hell of it, but it';s a nice gesture to do for someone you love *LOL*./

-- Anonymous, March 25, 2001

SOMEONE HELP ME!!! my boyfriend is uncircumsized and ive never performed oral sex on an uncircumsized penis before..do i need to do things differently? what do i do with the foreskin? i would appreciate any tips. thanks :o)

-- Anonymous, March 28, 2001

I'm uncircumsized, and my wife loves it. It's natural, and as long as you stay clean (you do shower once a day, don't you?) there's no problem. On the point of giving head to an uncut guy, IMHO, start by taking it in your mouth linke any other cock. Play with the foreskin- gently suck it. Remove your mouth. Then pull the skin back, and expose the head. Lick up and the shaft, and whenever you want to...take the exposed head in your mouth. Swirl your tongue around and suck up and down. Keep one hand at the base of his cock to keep the head exposed, and keep on going. This is how I love it when my wife does it.

-- Anonymous, May 05, 2001

I LOVE GIVING B/J'S. Having his cosk grow in my mouth is a power trip to me. Having him do this because of me is a real turn on.

-- Anonymous, May 11, 2001

there's no real difference, there's just a bit more skin to move around while you're giving the handjob while you're sucking their dick. if they're hard enough, there's no difference.

-- Anonymous, May 13, 2001

I am a uncircumsised guy and have been so embarrsed of my penis. I would never stand up at those trof things in public toliets incase someone saw my uncut dick and laughed or something. I was always scared of a girl not liking it. But now I am proud of it I have a more normal penis than a circumsised guy, mine is all natural, and now when standing up at public toliets with the skin rolled back no one know the difference. As for a head like some of the others said wne my girfriend gives me one now most of my skin is used up with my erection so I would say it is exactly the same as doing it to a circumsised guy.

-- Anonymous, July 27, 2001

I'm uncircumsized and I think it hurts when my foreskin is rolled back too fast or too far. But if I just have an erection and my skin rolls back automatically it's fine.

-- Anonymous, August 01, 2001

people who let their children get circumsized should go to jail! The poor babies who are mutilated are sad for the rest of ur life.

-- Anonymous, August 06, 2001

I would love to go down on a woman!! I would also enjoy it if a woman went down on me. It is the most intimate thing you can do to your mate. I want to get intimate with a woman right now!!

-- Anonymous, August 14, 2001

Licking fish sucks. I wish twats didn't have that fishy odor, because otherwise fishlicking could be a lot of fun.

-- Anonymous, August 15, 2001

i don't know whose twat that fool's been smelling. maybe you should try a chic with a better sense of hygene. on the subject of giving blow jobs, i think it's cool when you're really into a person and can recieve much more from it than cum in your mouth. i give, recieve, and love he whole act of giving head to some one i love. especially when i know i satisfied my partner.

-- Anonymous, August 30, 2001