This question doesn't have much to do with REM(nothing at all really), but I've been here a few times before and I know everyone here is very civil and understanding, so here is my dillema.I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years and i want to marry her but she doesn't know that i was born a biological woman(i had a sex change operation almost 4 years ago). What should I do?

-- bob marley (man@the_brink_of_insanity.com), August 28, 2000

Answers

I think you should go to a more appropriate website if you are infact being honest and maybe book an other operation with your doctor cause if you do tell her she's gonna undo your operation ahem if you know what I mean

-- dj lotus nugent (lotus85@another.com), August 28, 2000.

Uh...it's a hard question and i don't know what to tell you but i think that you'd better ask this question to people that are very close to you and not to unknown persons like me. I'm sorry i didn't answer you.

-- Jadey (spirulina_3@yahoo.it), August 28, 2000.

umm.... a tough one! why DID you have a sex change operation ANYWAY? PS lol @ dj lotus

-- Vedran (remit_z9@yahoo.com), August 28, 2000.

(LOL!)......my advice is run......coz if i were her,id knock at LEAST 7 types of s**t outta u,man....i HATE dishonest people...

-- ms. stipe (my_little_empire_3@yahoo.com), August 30, 2000.

*clap clap clap, very moving ms s. your an inspiration to us all, lol

-- jen (not@tellingyou.com), August 30, 2000.

awwwwwww.....jeeezzz,JEN,ur makin me blush!

-- ms. stipe (my_little_empire_3@yahoo.com), August 30, 2000.

hey ms s. notice bob said "civil and understanding". would you be an exception, hehehe. 7 types of s**t indeed, lol. and the award for being most tactful goes to....

-- jen (not@tellingyou.com), August 30, 2000.