MY FIANCE LIVES IN UPSTATE NY AND IS STILL STALKED AND THREATENED BY HER EX-HUSBAND. WE WANT TO RELOCATE HER AND HER TWO DAUGHTERS, OF WHOM SHE HAS LEGAL CUSTODY, TO ANOTHER STATE WITHOUT FEAR OF BEING TRACED. ITS SYNONYMOUS WITH THAT MOVIE "SLEEPING WITH THE ENEMY". ANY SUGGESTIONS AND TIME IS OF THE ESSENCE.

-- Anonymous, June 23, 1999

Answers

Has she tried calling a women's shelter? They often have relocation partnerships with other shelters. I'd suggest calling them.

(my personal gripe is that these type of services aren't also available to men but that's totally beside the point here)

-- Anonymous, July 08, 1999

Call a womens shelter or group is the answer. Unless this guy is part of the mafia or a part of a major terrorist group his life will be over once those fat little women in those womens groups start filling out paper work to ruin his life for ever. They have the power of the police, Media, and public perception.

-- Anonymous, August 08, 1999

We need to start focusing on who's profiting from the abuse in this country and this world, for that matter. Divorce Lawyers are a good start. We all need to put some thought into who these people are. Keeping in mind that they have created a paranoia that has us all looking over our shoulders. The biggest key is don't get upset, ever! That's what they want! Women get upset and because they can't vent their anger like a man they internalize it and it causes them to act the way they do. I believe psychiatrists are to blame also. Got a problem, don't seek counseling, seek out a way to vent. Chop wood, make a quilt and sell it for profit, get a job, figure out ways to create time for happiness. Don't dwell on it do something about!!!!

-- Anonymous, November 14, 1999